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colliemommie ([personal profile] colliemommie) wrote2012-01-03 07:57 pm

In which the Kat is a big girl

Much better day today with potty training. I think something clicked somewhere, and I know I'm handling things in a Katrina-acceptable way now.

Instead of asking "do you have to go to the potty" (the answer is ALWAYS no), I've started asking if her undies are still dry. Then she gets a high five for keeping her big girl pants dry, but it still serves as a reminder. The other thing is, instead of insisting that she give it a try when I see the potty dance going on, to say "It looks like your body is trying to tell you you need to pee". Then it's not about me and what I want her to do. Small things, but it seems to make a difference.

Today she only had one accident, two attempts, and five successes. We actually left the house today too; once to go to the chiropractor (my hips were so off the baby flipped breech last night...thankfully he went vertex again after things were untwisted) and once to spend half and hour with the next door neighbors. I may actually get what passes for my life back in the next week!

I would also like to take this opportunity to apologize to all the parents I have ever known. At some point I have probably thought you were a bit weird to be so obssessed with your offsprings' elimination habits. I now understand. No matter how one goes about toilet training a child, at some time one will hit the point where for three days to a week pottying really is your first priority.

[identity profile] rockinlibrarian.livejournal.com 2012-01-04 09:25 pm (UTC)(link)
I think the fact that this seems to be HER IDEA for the most part is definitely a sign of this going relatively smoothly and quickly-- I've noticed the kids who CARE are the ones who are more likely to JUST DO IT!

[identity profile] colliemommie.livejournal.com 2012-01-05 12:00 am (UTC)(link)
Bruce has been nagging me to "get her potty trained" before the baby shows up, and I've been telling him I'm not dumb enough to try and force the issue. She is not what you would call a compliant child, and trying to make this happen would only backfire.

So I was extremely relieved when she decided to get rid of the diapers on her own.

It's like I read in some book or other: potty training can be done in one day...it's just a matter of choosing the right day.