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[colliemommie]

I will never understand how people will talk to a partner of family member in ways they would never speak to a stranger or coworker. Call me crazy, but if I love someone I am nicer to them than I am to a random person.

This message brought to you by Bruce's lovely way of pitching a fit at me when he's stressed/anxious/angry about something else. I'm not a fan. I also find it very odd that it never happened the three years we dated. The first time was a month after we got married. If it had happened beforehand I'd have thought twice.

Also, saying "I love you" does not magically erase the words "you're a fucking moron". Just in case anyone else is laboring under that delusion.

It was kind of funny in a way; he's pitching a fit and my mind is just going "stop wasting my time, I'm tired from dealing with actual important things all day". I sure didn't like it, but I wasn't emotionally torn up at all. So go me, I guess?

Comments

[noodledays.livejournal.com]

I'm glad to hear it didn't mess with you, and yeah I don't get that phenomenon at all either.

[colliemommie.livejournal.com]

Well, the comments about me being stupid didn't big me because that is one thing I am 100% sure I am not. The one comment about my "dumpy ass" has me all :-( because I'm so much heavier than I want to be

This mortgage/moving/holiday fiasco is stressful, so I'm doing my best to remind myself that it really isn't about me.

[noodledays.livejournal.com]

the stresses will definitely do a number all around, and it's generous you're working to keep that in mind. <3